If you were to walk up to a random man in the street and ask them how he’d rate his desire to forego his orgasms on a permanent basis, yet still engage in regular and frequent sexual activity with his wife or partner, my guess is he would look at you as if you were quite mad.
But odd as it may seem, this is exactly what many men crave and desire, even to the point where they’ll literally beg their wives to make it happen.
But why does any man do this?
Well, it comes down to biology.
Except in one exceptional circumstance, a man who has just orgasmed desires his partner less. That one exception is when the relationship is fresh and new. But that, obviously, happens only once in any relationship.
And over time, if left to his own devices, a man will allow his orgasms slowly to affect his relationship — he gets lackadaisical, lazy, and far less romantic.
This is the main reason a couple’s sex-life tails off over time. It’s not that you don’t love each other… it’s just that the lust has died.
But here’s the thing… if a man is not allowed to orgasm, but in all other respects engages in full sexual activity with a woman, then after a very short period of time his lust is back at full strength… and it stays there until he orgasms again.
Each man is different but the period of “down time”, when he becomes lazy and lackadaisical, is typically four to seven days.
In other words, if you want to keep your man loving, romantic and attentive you should strictly control his orgasms and limit them severely.
Well, this is where we hit some resistance — at first.
Because over the years I’ve been practicing orgasm denial with my husband, John, I have ultimately come round to the way of thinking that ideally a man will never orgasm at all.
Yes, you understand me correctly: I am saying for best results, you should not allow your man to orgasm ever and make his denial a permanent way of life.
It’s unlikely a man will readily agree to this until he’s experienced the very real benefits of orgasm denial for himself. And it’s NOT all about you, either.
Men who experience orgasm denial not only enjoy the increased physical and emotional intimacy you share, but they actually find they also enjoy the physical sensation of not cumming. Yes, it’s hard at the time and “in the moment”, but when they fall back from that delicious edge they find the residual feeling is exquisite.
And this is why so many men find themselves begging their wives to give them the ultimate gift of permanent orgasm denial.
An added bonus is this: they also become better partners. Meaning, they “engage” more with you in the important parts of your relationship that you may have felt was becoming stale. This is NOT about submission or female dominance.
It’s a natural result of his newly awakened lust for you.
I strongly recommend anyone setting out on their journey into male chastity make a point of setting their eventual goal as being permanent orgasm denial.